We got the keys to our space last Tuesday

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so we spent the remainder of the week gathering the supplies we would need to paint and clean. We spent Friday afternoon cleaning or with appointments with different trades–pest, HVAC, locksmith.

Saturday and Sunday were spent painting. We have primed everything except 4 closets/storage areas of varying sizes. I figured that we should get the main/public areas of the Karate school ready for prospective students.

I’ve taken the day off of painting today so I can get my house in order and spend more time painting later in the week. The sooner we get everything in order there and open the school, the sooner I will have that stuff out of my house and I can remove our personal clutter. I know that the kids’ old homeschool stuff can get sold, the last one graduates this year.

I will try one more time and then I’m done

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Please check with OK state regulations regarding vehicle abandonment. According to the three instances where I had to deal with an abandoned vehicle, 30 days was all the time required for a vehicle to be parked with no communication from the owner, before it was considered abandoned. The mechanic and/or the land owner was under NO obligation to contact you during that time. If 30 days (or whatever the time interval might be under OK statute) the mechanic and/or property owner didn’t hear from you, then by law the vehicle would be considered abandoned. At that point, any title would be null and void. Ownership of the vehicle would automatically pass to the property owner, at which time he can do whatever he wants with it. That was the procedure which occurred in all three instances I was involved in. Also, when a vehicle is abandoned as above described, the new vehicle owner must either pay money to get a new title assigned, OR can sell it as salvage, which occurred here. From everything you’ve said so far, this sounds exactly like the other three instances I am familiar with, all of which were perfectly legal. But don’t take my word for it and don’t take anyone else’s word for it. Go check the OK state law before you start serving warrants or paying an attorney or siccing Bruno on this guy or whatever else. Vehicle abandonment happens every day, the procedures are very straightforward, and there’s nothing here (yet) which tells me the mechanic did anything other than what he was required to do. Don’t spend a bunch of money on this until you’ve proven otherwise. Or he could come after you for stuff like defamation of character, etc.

I’m very excited for you! I see major $ coming your way

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If I were you, I would stop worrying about whether he broke the law, get the sheriff involved etc. Clearly he did, and clearly the sheriff doesn’t care.

I would, however, get to the Small Claims court house for that area (where the truck was at, since technically, that’s where the contract was) and file papers on MONDAY for the Kelly Blue Book value of the truck. Usually they give you a choice of having a “friend” serve him, service by mail, or service by the county sheriff/marshall office. While this usually costs about $50-60 to have him served by the men in green, it GETS his attention PRONTO.

And then of course, after you win, my FAVORITE method of collecting money is to do a Till Tap, which is where a marshall/sheriff in uniform, literally stands at the cash register all day collecting every payment/purchase that comes in in order to pay the debt. It usually only takes about 15 minutes of that for the shiester to pay up.

I used the cricut craft room to lay out a full 12 x 12 sheet

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Went to the cut feature and it said I needed to link my cartridge. Tried to link an got an error. Then it said I needed to update my firmware, I hit the skip button because I wanted to complete the project. It would not let me cut unless I did the update. So I finally gave up and did the update, then my cricut would no longer work.

I was curious if this machine is sold on

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You could post a review there too. Reviews there often make companies really sit up and pay attention simply from the sheer exposure to such a huge potential market. Also, might be another option. But yea, spread the word far and wide. That’s simply unacceptable for a company to treat their customers that way. I know I’m preaching to the choir……

I did better, I posted it on several users

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Once I did others came forward with basically the same story, only none if them got any compensation. My warning also stopped several from doing the latest update, thus saving their machines.

Many who were going to buy the new unit are now going to buy from their competitor. Many were not aware they regularly put out new machines and then stopped supporting them in a short period of time. They are now. Jan who says companies need to remember word of mouth can either make or break a company.

Yup, my utilities are the same

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mortgage stays the same, cell phone bill is the same, insurance is the same, cable is the same, cc payment is the same.

What changes for me is fuel, groceries that sort of thing.

That doesn’t mean that I don’t check my bills every month – because I do. I just prefer to set it up 12 months at a time.

I have spent much of the last two weeks working on learning my equipment for our little business

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Two weeks ago I stupidly did an update on my main die cutting machine and the result was my machine stopped working. Yo-yo going down.
I called customer service and the first rep was very nice. She couldn’t fix it, but said maybe the next tier could because they were aware the update was basically killing some machines. So she put me to the next tier. I was hopeful, so I rode the yo-yo up.
That night second tier called and basically told dh and I “toughies” Yes, they knew their upgrade would kill some of the machines over 3 years old, especially ones nearing age 5. Which mine is, but it had only been used about 6 months of that time. I asked what they were going to do about it and was told “nothing.” Yo-yo going down smoking with angry heat.
You all know me well enough to know that was not acceptable. We are talking a $150 machine to replace and I have hundreds of dollars in accessories and materials tied up to go with it. After about 15 minutes of heated discussion, the guy offered me $15 to go away, I refused, he upped it to $20. I again refused pointing out that 1 minute before the upgrade the machine was working perfect. That it was the upgrade they demanded I do before I could get my project off their website (a project that used my accessories that I had legally purchased that were now linked permanently to their website) that destroyed my machine. I wanted a fix, a replacement or a larger compensation NOW. He refused, I demanded and received third tier. Yo-yo spinning at the bottom and starting to flame like what we called at ‘voo, a white man’s fire.
Third tier tried arguing with me, and it was not until I pointed out that had I been given a warning with a choice of the possible demise of my machine I would not had updated and that basically what they had done was a scam, and act of fraud she again offered me the $20 and the possibility of buying a refurbished machine as soon as they had one available, which would probably be in a few months, for $50.
I then said,” so the refurbished are older machines that would be subject to this same problem right?” She hesitated and then said, well maybe. I don’t think so! After nearly an hour on the phone I came away with a $30 credit because my machine was 5 years old and $150 divided by 5 equals $30. Of course the credit has to be used on their website. Yo-yo was hanging low all that night.
Next day, after reading various forums and such I started tinkering with the machine and combining all I had read, with my limited knowledge of electronics I got the machine running again, in the updated format. So if I, a know nothing, could fix it why couldn’t their tech people? Obviously they knew it was fixable, because they refurbish them and re-sell them. Scam anyone? Yo-yo moving back up. Only the accessory that was connected to it still wouldn’t work. This, however, I have a possible way to get replaced for free. And not by using the $30 credit, which I have no qualms about using on a different accessory because of their attitude and them saying “it’s your problem not ours. Most people would have purchased a new machine using a payment plan by now.” Yeah, right!
Then dh tried an add-0n program that had previously worked, yo-yo going down, it didn’t work. More tinkering and we got it to work! Yo-yo back all the way to the top. I will be doing no more updates with that company, nor will I be purchasing the new unit they are sending me ads on for $300. It has to be linked totally to them and a computer—want to bet what would happen with that unit after 3-4 years?
There are other die cut machines on the market in the same price category that do more and have a good solid reputation/reviews for their customer service.
Yo-yo stayed up with our official notices on ss that we will get our first checks the end of Feb. Finally, something in writing.
Cold weather, down, warm weather up, cold weather down, balanced budget up. You get the idea.


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if we continue to save at the same rate, we have various amounts going into the different accounts. It would be 50 plus 70 plus 25 plus 50 each month. So, I guess it would be about a year. We could increase the amounts instead of continuing to pay on the snowball and could probably get there in less time.

I do know how you feel Melanie, and i am right there with you

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This is exactly what I have been struggling with since DH found work this month. We would have been homeless in a heartbeat if DH hadn’t happened to have 8 weeks of vacation pay saved up….and the company wanting to avoid a lawsuit over DH’s termination, decided to pay it all rather than the two weeks they were obligated to.

The experience this year of being long term unemployed showed me the importance of having a 3-6 month savings built up. This month (January) we needed both of DH’s checks to pay rent and used my income to make the car payment, car insurances, and gas for the cars.

February 5th will be the first “disposable” income check we have. I did a plan for the next 4 months, the summary version had the theme “getting caught up.”

Then I realized our debt looked like this:

$2700 in various 7 credit card debts
$2000 in one single CC
$6500 in car loan
$5000 in IRS and state taxes (IRS is in abeyance due to DH’s unemployment)

I then realized that while I had planned to “get caught up” and pay all the CC’s the required amount to “get current”, and put some in savings, I could actually pay 4 of the 7 COMPLETELY OFF. Maybe 5 if I can work some deals with the CC people.

I have decided to act in faith, or trust in the system as Shay said, and pray (literally) that DH will continue to be employed. So my plan is to pay 4 out of the 7 off in February, the remaining 3 in March (and hope the car lasts that long), the large one with the 1st check in April, and pay the state taxes and put $1k into savings with the “extra” check in April.

Doing it this way, by the end of April, we could be debt free except for the IRS and the car. THAT MATTERS because if DH were to become unemployed again, we know that we can survive on the amount he would get on unemployment and what I bring in.

Would I like to have the $5k in the bank and “current” on CC’s? Sure. It would make me feel safer…that’s the equivalent of 2 1/2 months worth of rent, and I know your goal is to have 3 months of mortgage payment etc in the bank. But I’ve decided to take a giant leap of faith. It’s truly a leap of faith, because it’s scary thinking we could go through the same thing again, and this time, have NO nest egg to fall back on. Once the CC’s are paid off, I may revisit it and decide to slow down paying off the car and put 1/2 into paying off the car and 1/2 into savings, but I’ll cross that bridge when I come to it (right now, I’d probably hold my breath, pay the car off rapidly, because that is $400 a month off our backs and after the two months of paying off the car, I could be saving $2k a month)

I guess that I know that answer to this question is

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that DR would say that I should, but I am not sure how to get past the anxiety of having the money there to help me feel more safe and secure. In fact, DR. would probably tell me to take about 5000 of it and pay things off, but I think that this would be way too much for me to be able to do emotionally. I am the type of person that needs security.

Would you?

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So, in the past few months, we have had all sorts of extra expenses. I fell on the ice twice and ended up with a whiplash injury the first time and a shoulder sprain the second time. They thought I might have a tear in my shoulder, but the good news is that it is just a sprain. That means 60 dollars a week for PT and other amounts for doctor copays.

Next, my son started having some significant issues with anxiety, mood, and not sleeping. It ended up that we found out that he is being bullied, but it took taking him to a counselor to find out. Now, we are addressing it, but that is an additional 20 dollars a week for that copay. He needs this given that he believed that he should let the other kid beat him up or he would not have any friends.

Then, we got two kittens from the humane society. This was a splurge I will admit. But now we have pet costs, most are temporary, but it was over 300 dollars in January. We still need to pay for a couple of vet visits for shots, etc., but then this cost will go down quite a bit.

I see these as needed expenses (other than the cats), but they have majorly set our snowball back. We essentially don’t have anything extra anymore to add to the debt payments. It is quite frustrating.

So, I do have more money in savings accounts that DR says that we need for step 2. In a joint account, we have 6300, my own savings accounts are about 4000 combined, and then my partner has about 1500 combined in her savings accounts.

I played the zero percent interest game last summer, with only two cards drawing any interest. The goal was to have the first one paid off by the end of the year, but we still have a balance on that card a full month after the end of the year. Then, another card with about 1100 also has interest. Combined, I could pay those off it I took 2000 from savings and paid them.

I am being told that I need about another month of PT and the counseling will continue for a while, but even getting that 240 dollars back each month will help us starting in March.

I wanted the extra savings because of the uncertainty of my partner’s job in that she works for the department of defense and politicians like to play with her paycheck and that makes me nervous. I am a tenured school employee so my job should be secure. Now that a budget deal has been reached in congress, the question is whether things are stable enough that I can warrant taking that 2000 out to pay off this debt.

Out of the zero percent interest deals, two of them expire between March and May and I’d like to start trying to pay those off before they start earning interest again. Tax refunds will help with this.

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